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Struggle is Necessary for Success

By: Anandrahi

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If you aspire for success and power you have to struggle hard

and pass through many bitter experiences in the society before

you have any glimpse of that sweet fruit called success. And you

must prepare your mind as well as your body to be able to battle

hard to get the position you deserve. If you are determined and

prepared for struggle it will only improve your fighting power.



You may have heard the name Sylvester Stallone - a super star of

Hollywood films. Seeing his great success can you imagine how

hard he had to struggle in life? Due to his speech defect, and

flat feet other kids made a fun of him at school. He developed a

disruptive behaviour and failed to learn anything. He was

eventually kicked out of seventeen schools. Can you imagine the

impact it had on the personality of the child and his parents?

They passed through very painful period. Fortunately at his 18th

school he discovered a fascination for art. As his interest grew

he became confident of his talent in acting.



As a young man with a family of his own to feed, he struggled

and struggled. His electric bills were unpaid, his refrigerator

and cupboards empty. Struggle made him even more determined to

succeed. He also wrote an exciting film script. His desire to

direct and star in his creation was so great that he was ready

to face any difficult situation. Super stardom was waiting for

him. He sold his script, became hero of the same film and

directed it too. It was Rocky - his first blockbuster. The story

proves that when you are determined and prepared to struggle the

life provides big opportunities.



STRENGTHEN YOUR STAMINA



It is difficult to face the crushing waves of today's

competition if you are not able to endure long hours of work and

frustrating circumstances. It is called stamina. No person

without stamina ever got big success in this world. Stamina can

be increased and maintained at any age.



A fighter in life needs to be physically fit. Therefore we must

take some exercise that is suitable to our physical state and in

which we can take interest. Eat for health not for taste. Then

you will be able to keep the diseases away, increase your life

span and most of all become free from unnecessary physical

suffering and medical bills. You must do a lot of work every day

to increase your working capacity. The more you work the more

stamina you gain.



HOW TO BE IMMUNE TO CRITICISM



The most difficult part of the life of a struggler is to face

criticism. If you want to progress and want to experiment with

new methods you will be criticised at every step, even by your

friends and family members. Some times the power of criticism is

so massive that it can tear away the confidence of many a steely

personalities. To become immune to criticism, first define your

aims clearly and then increase your determination by daily dose

of affirmations (confirming your aims and saying something

positive about you before sleeping). Self image technique taught

in the first section of this book will also help you a lot.



ROLE OF SOCIAL FORCES



Social forces play an important role in the progress of a

person. The great people who rise to high places in business and

politics definitely know the art of using these forces to their

advantage. Only talent can't help you to win the battles of

life. You must be shrewd enough to use those forces in our

society that can make or mar your career. These forces are: your

family, your friends, the people of the area you live in and

those power circles which throw hurdles whenever you want to

move ahead. Most of these social forces are insensitive,

ruthless and have enough powers to swallow your very existence.



Most of them are blind to your compassion or the angel in your

heart. If you can't learn the art of dealing with these forces

your talent is worth a dime, you don't need to be proud of it.

It is difficult to explain the art in words in a short space.

Then what should a person do to take the advantages of those

forces that can crush a brilliant personality in the beginning

of the race? These social forces are like a fire. Use them

cautiously or they may burn your wings. The brief advice to deal

with these forces: First understand the power of these forces,

and you solve half the problem. Then learn to keep patience and

analyse these forces with the mind of a student. When you

understand them you will know how to deal with them. You

definitely need to control your passion and reaction. If you try

to clash with these forces like a bull you may ruin your chance

of winning. Deal them tactfully and diplomatically. Every person

develops his or her own art gradually.



IS STRUGGLE HARDER FOR LADIES



Yes. Reason: they are unable to find as many support bases in

the society or the world as men. And they generally need the

support of strong-willed males to move ahead. They certainly

need to become more efficient in the art of survival. How much

struggle are you able to do if you can't change the basic nature

of the society? That is the only reason that men generally

occupy most of the power posts everywhere, barring a few

examples. A lady can definitely find ways to win in any field

when she is very determined and shrewd. And by adding a little

charisma to her personality she can become a magnificent force.

But still most of the ladies have to work very hard in the

society to get the place they actually deserve.



BATTLING WITH OPPOSITION



Don't allow hurdles, setbacks, or opposition engulf your

personality and suck your life out of your body. Society tries

its best to make you live according to its mould whether you

like it or not. If you want to become different you are

attacked. And a human being is bound to react. If the reaction

is negative it is the end of his dreams or career. If he decides

to battle with determination he will survive and gain power. So

if you want to progress in life don't seek mercy, don't be a

beggar, become a warrior to achieve your goals. You will rise

like a shining star.



Anandrahi



Trained thousands of persons to get great jobs, improve

personality and achieve goals in business. CEO: News of India

Network Director: LSE-India (for Communication Skills and

Personality Development)



Best-selling Books written by Anandrahi : 1. Think Your Way to

Wealth and Power , 2. Fire of Success in Your Mind, 3. Speak

English and Influence People (To get an ebook write an email).



emails: anandrahi@yahoo.co.in, anandrahi@newsofindia.net



http://www.newsofindianet.blogspot.com

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