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A Dozen Ways to Celebrate Valentine's Day If You're Not Part of a Couple

By: Susan Dunn, MA, The EQ Coach

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When we think of Valentine's Day, we tend to think of two lovers

celebrating together. If you aren't paired at this time, don't

let yourself get left out! Here are 14 great ways to celebrate

Valentine's Day YOUR way.



1. Celebrate with a child!



If you don't have one, borrow one! Invite your niece over for an

afternoon of tea with tiaras and tutus, making Valentines, and

reading Valentine's books. Got a boy in your life? How about

some Uno, slap-jack or Pente, video games and a candle-lit

dinner with fondue - to keep those hands busy! Nice red catsup

is good enough for the sauce!



2. Give a party at a children's shelter.



The Volunteer Director is trained to help you! Simple

refreshments, favors, plan a game, tie-dye t-shirts, crafts,

play the piano and sing. It's the thought and the companionship

that count. Games? Play musical chairs, tying big red bows to

the front of the chairs. Pin the Lips on Ms. Valentine - draw

"her" on posterboard - use moving eyes, false eyelashes and pipe

cleaners for hair. Put each kid's name on a pair of red lips cut

out of construction paper with tape on back. Blindfold them with

a Valentine scarf and proceed! Valentine Bingo - make bingo

cards with February-theme items: groundhogs, Presidents Lincoln

and Washington, candy, hearts, doves, lovers, Valentines, etc.

Serve "Love Potion" for the beverage (Hawaiian punch would work).



3. Make it a special day for someone in a retirement or nursing

home.



Put on that bright red sweater and your Valentine tie, scarf, or

suspenders (http://store.yahoo.com/tiebar2/valentineday.html )

and head on over! You will be SO WELCOME. Bring along some

homemade Ultimate Killer Cookie of All Time

(http://www.fabulousfoods.com/recipes/dessert/cookies/ultcookie.h

tml ). 'All My Lovin'" and other Valentine's braces available

here: http://www.rainbowconnection.com/index.php/cPath/22_71 .

4. Have friends of all ages over for a Valentine's Party.



Sing love songs, watch a video, make an outrageously beautiful

buffet spread. Have everyone bring a grab bag gift. Have a

poetry contest. Here's a list of Romantic songs:

http://www.inspirationpoint.com/ipmusic.htm . Buy some new CDs

here, very affordable:

http://www.arkivmusic.com/classical/100.jsp?AID=10277616&PID=1814

374 .



Or make it a Romantic Opera Night for special friends and

aficionados. German or Italian, make a fitting buffet. Obvious

selections would be Wagner's "Tristran and Isolde," or Puccini's

"Turandot" or "Madame Butterfly." If you're longing for love,

you can't match Isolde, so it gets it all in perspective.



5. Call up your son and daughter-in-law and tell them you're

coming for the weekend to take care of the kids so they can go

celebrate.



Pack the parents off, and then bake Valentine's cookies with the

kids and have a red dinner - red jello hearts, heart-shaped

pasta with tomato sauce or heart-shaped pizza, Hawaiian punch

and cinnamon hearts in hot cocoa. "Willie Wonka" video, everyone

gets in the big bed with Nana, snuggle-time, dogs included. Woo

hoo!



6. Celebrate with your animal companion.



There's no more reliable source of love in our lives. Bake some

homemade dog biscuits ( http://www.gurney.co.uk/pads/bone.htm )

. Take your dog for a special outing, and on the way, drop off

your treats at the local animal shelter. Or take your animal

companion with you to a nursing home or convalescent center.

Many facilities are making this opportunity available for their

guests. You can deck your dog, cat, ferret or rabbit in a

festive Valentine scarf -

http://www.pet-bandanas.com/valentines-bandanas.htm - for the

occasion. Valentine's sweaters, vests, ties, bows, boas! And

anything else you need for your little furry friend -

http://www.cosettescloset.com/valwear.html .



7. Enjoy the day helping others.



A local place of worship might be building a house for Habitat

or going Valentine caroling at a housing project. If not, why

not? If not you, who? Organize something with your civic group,

singles group or Sunday School class. If the New York Giants can

do it, so can you. They visited patients in Children's Hospital

of New York-Presbyterian on Valentine's Day.



8. Book a Valentine cruise on the Costa cruise line and dance

the nights away.



Be a gentleman host, or dance with one! Gentlemen dance hosts

"work" from 8 pm to 1 am every night, visiting with and dancing

with women cruise guests. Great vacation for singles! Gentleman,

don't forget your red cummerbund and bowtie

(http://store.yahoo.com/tiebar2/solcolcumbow.html ).



9. Girls' Day Valentine Brunch.



Go for massages first (try one of those chains w/ a first-time

special), then congregate at your house for brunch. Make

pancakes and fried eggs shaped like hearts, serve with

strawberry or raspberry syrup, fresh strawberries, some nice

crisp bacon, strawberry daiquiris and nice hot tea. Yum! Set a

terminally romantic buffet table and fill the DR ceiling with

pink and/or red helium balloons. Play some Andrea Bocelli in the

background. We recommend the "Romanza" CD. Bravo!



10. Check for special events in your town, or get away for the

weekend. Bath House Center in Dallas, Texas, has an annual

February exhibit called "El Corazon," - interpretations of the

human heat by 50 Texas artists. The Detroit Symphony has Chris

Botti Valentine, the heart-topping trumpet player who opened for

Sting's "Sacred Love" tour. He performs selections from his hit

recording When I Fall In Love.

(http://www.detroitsymphony.com/main.taf?erube_fh=dso&dso.submit.

viewHomePage=1 ). The Plano (Tx.) Symphony Orchestra will

celebrate Valentine's Day with the Letterman ("Can't Take My

Eyes Off of You," and "Put Your Head on My Shoulder") . Their

style is humorous and interactive. Optional dinner prior, and

reception following. At the Chicago Lyric Opera? Rigoletto, with

Bella Figlia dell'Amore ... what could be better?



11. Try something zany. The Embassy Suites, Richmond, Va. offers

the King's Dominion Package - 2-room suite, breakfast,

reception, indoor pool and Jacuzzi and 2 adult tickets to go

ride that roller coaster! There's more than one way to 'lose

your heart' on Valentine's Day.



Or check out the Winter-storm adventure Ancient Cedars Spa,

Vancouver Island at the Wickannish Inn, situated on a rocky

promontory at the gateway to Pacific Rim National Park Reserve

(http://www.wickinn.com/Frames/HPfrm.htm ). Watch 20' waves

pounding the coast from your room with ocean view, deep soaker

tub, fireplace, spa, and epicurean dining. Slickers provided.

Bring along some friends, your pet, and/or a good book!



12. Feed your heart and your love of learning! Curl up with a

good book. Read a super sappy and sentimental romance, or read

about love itself. "A General Theory of Love" is written by

three doctors, one of whom writes like a poet (

http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0375709223/susandunnmome-2

0 ).



There are so many ways to make this a special time. Love

yourself and make it a great holiday!

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